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Hello Reader, We’re about to step into that strange pocket of the year—the final non-holiday week of 2025. The one that looks tidy on the calendar but rarely behaves. It’s a week that tends to ask more of us than it has any right to: wrapping up projects, closing loops, tying bows, attending gatherings, showing up for others, showing up for ourselves, and preparing for the holidays… all at once. It’s the week where the world turns inhuman—deadlines tighten, calendars crowd, and expectations stack seemingly sky-high. And yet… it’s the week where being human matters most. My own week ahead is packed: a few livestreams, community happenings, and facilitating an entire immersive focus day a week from today. It’s the kind of stretch that used to push me into overdrive. Now, I try to meet it differently—less like a sprint, more like a crossing. One step at a time. One intention at a time. If you’re heading into a similarly dense week, here are a few things that might help:
Don't forget: Humanness isn’t a luxury this week—it’s the lever. Treating yourself like a human being in an inhuman week is the quiet work that keeps everything else from unraveling. See you later, P.S. If you want support as you navigate the week—and the year ahead—the TimeCrafting Trust has space for you. Premium members get access to things like our iF (immersive focus) Days, daily Focus Fix sessions, monthly gatherings, and deeper guidance on shaping your relationship with time. Membership starts at $14/month and you can join us here. |
I’m Mike Vardy, and I help people build a better relationship with time — not by controlling it, but by working with it. Through my writing, courses, and community, I explore how intention and attention shape a more meaningful life — one rooted in the original idea of productiveness over productivity.
Hello Reader, Yesterday in the Grand Connection’s Grand Productivity Group I shared three free tools that can help you work with more intention — not by adding pressure, but by giving your thoughts, your focus, and your habits a clearer place to land. I wanted to pass my choices along to you as well, because each one serves a different layer of how we relate to our time. No overlap. No noise. Just three calm companions you can try without spending a cent. Here they are. Amplenote: For...
Hello Reader, I’ve been thinking about John Lennon again — not the icon, but the man who kept reminding us that time isn’t something you conquer. It’s something you learn to move with. There’s the line everyone knows: “Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans.” Quoted to death, sure, but only because it keeps proving itself right. Lennon wasn’t warning us; he was inviting us to loosen our grip. But the line that hits me most now is this one: “Time you enjoy wasting was...
The Lantern by Mike Vardy Vol. 1, Issue 41 | December 6, 2025 Hello Reader, You may be familiar with the phrase “it is what it is.” A shrug dressed up as wisdom. A way of stepping back when life doesn’t bend. But there’s another line — harder, steadier — that Robert De Niro delivers in The Deer Hunter. Holding up a single rifle round, he says:“This is this.” Not resignation. Recognition. Where “it is what it is” lets you drift away from the moment, “this is this” places you squarely inside...