If This Season Feels Heavy


Hello Reader,

I’ve been thinking about It’s a Wonderful Life again.

Partly because it’s December—and we’re deep enough into it now that the shine has worn off. Partly because I recently listened to an episode of the What Went Wrong? podcast that unpacked how that film almost didn’t survive—and why it still endures.

What stayed with me wasn’t the trivia. It was the reminder beneath it all.

George Bailey doesn’t get a new life. He gets the same life back—just seen differently.

That matters.

Because by this point in December, most of us aren’t walking around feeling like our lives are “wonderful.” We feel stretched. A little frayed. Sometimes small. And this season has a way of quietly amplifying all of that.

But wonder isn’t the same thing as wonderful.

Wonderful is polished. Wonder is practical. It lives in the margins—the small rituals, familiar faces, quiet moments that don’t announce themselves as important.

When you notice even one of those, something shifts. Not because everything changes, but because your relationship with time softens. You stop measuring your life and start experiencing it.

So if December feels heavy—or rushed, or oddly flat—you could try this: Look for one moment of wonder today.

Nothing grand. Just real. A passing kindness. A line you overhear. Light doing something unexpected.

It won’t fix everything. But it might remind you that your life—this one—is fuller than it feels.

See you later,
Mike

P.S. If this way of noticing resonates, The 12 Days of TimeCrafting is designed for exactly this moment in the year. One small offering at a time—no pressure to keep up—just simple ideas to help you finish the year with a little more clarity, calm, and wonder than you started it. Click here to learn more and sign up.

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I’m Mike Vardy, and I help people build a better relationship with time — not by controlling it, but by working with it. Through my writing, courses, and community, I explore how intention and attention shape a more meaningful life — one rooted in the original idea of productiveness over productivity.

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