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Hello Reader, Every year on January 18, I resurface an old SNL sketch that’s very much not safe for work. The punchline? Everyone has already abandoned their New Year’s resolutions by that date. Darkly funny. Uncomfortably familiar. Yesterday also happened to be Blue Monday—that so-called low point of January where motivation dips and optimism wobbles. You can debate the science (and you probably should), but the feeling? That part’s real enough. So if the year hasn’t gone the way you imagined so far, let’s get one thing straight: You’re not late. As of today (January 20) about 5.5% of the year is behind us. That means 94.5% is still ahead. That’s 345 days. Plenty of runway. Now, here’s the important nuance. Yes, you can start the year you want whenever you want. January 1 isn’t sacred. Neither is Monday. Or the 1st of the month. But starting over every time things wobble? That’s not a reset... it’s a stall. The real work isn’t about perfect beginnings. It’s about continuity. Not restarting the year. Not scrapping the plan. But gently—and deliberately—re-entering the path you meant to be on. So instead of asking, “Should I start again?” Try asking:
You don’t need a clean slate. You need a clear next step. And if today feels heavy, that’s okay. Take the step anyway—but take it kindly. I’m rooting for you—not just on January 1, but on January 20… and January 137… and whenever you decide to keep going. See you later, P.S. If continuing feels easier with others around you, the READY Retreat begins today inside the TimeCrafting Trust. It’s a calm, guided way to reset without starting over—and you can join the community for as little as $14/month. No pressure. Just a place to re-enter with intention. |
I’m Mike Vardy, and I help people build a better relationship with time — not by controlling it, but by working with it. Through my writing, courses, and community, I explore how intention and attention shape a more meaningful life — one rooted in the original idea of productiveness over productivity.
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