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Hello Reader, My daughter comes home from university tomorrow... for one month. Not the whole summer. One month. And one of those weeks, I'll be away at a conference. So the math is already doing what math does. There's a stat that floats around parenting circles — the kind that lands differently once your kid is actually gone. By the time a child leaves home, the percentage of lifetime time a parent has left with them is somewhere in the single digits. Not the teens. Single digits. I've been sitting with that number. She'll work a bit. She'll see her friends. That's exactly what she should do. But when she's present with me, I want to be present with her. Not half-present, not glancing at a task list, not mentally somewhere else. So I'm taking a step back in June. Not away from my work... but I'm letting that awareness shape how I show up for all of it. The writing. The videos. And the community. You'll see what I mean starting June 1st. — Mike P.S. While I'm being more intentional about where my attention goes this month, I'm also thinking about what I build next... and that starts with you. If you haven't filled out this short survey yet, click here. I'd love your honest take. |
I’m Mike Vardy, and I help people build a better relationship with time — not by controlling it, but by working with it. Through my writing, courses, and community, I explore how intention and attention shape a more meaningful life — one rooted in the original idea of productiveness over productivity.
The Lantern by Mike Vardy Vol. 2, Issue 13 | May 23, 2026 Hello Reader, I watched Jamie Vardy's Netflix documentary last week. He's the Leicester City striker who went from non-league football and factory shifts and an ankle tag to Premier League champion. The whole arc is built around a clock running out and a man outrunning it. But it was his tattoos that stopped me. He has a sleeve — black-and-grey realism, the kind designed to look almost photographic. Pocket watches. Roses. The style...
Hello Reader, You may have noticed things were quieter than usual from me this week. That's because I've been in it — three days of The READY Retreat with the TimeCrafting Trust community, working through the same process I've been refining for years. Reflecting, eliminating, attuning, choosing, yielding. When you step back to retreat, your usual patterns get disrupted. Intentionally. That's the point. Emails wait. The work doesn't. Now that the retreat is complete, I'm turning my attention...
The Lantern by Mike Vardy Vol. 2, Issue 12 | May 16, 2026 Hello Reader, I went for a walk this week through the kind of noise that usually makes you want to find the quietest room in the house. Café sounds. Voices. The ambient hum of a city mid-afternoon. Somewhere in the middle of all that external noise, the noise inside my head started to settle. Not because the world cooperated. Because I moved through it anyway. We spend enormous energy trying to control the conditions around us. The...