What are you choosing to care about?


Hello Reader,

We tend to believe that doing more will get us where we want to go. More effort. More output. More improvement.

But that belief rarely gets questioned.

What does get overlooked is this: What are we choosing to care about in the first place?

That’s what I’ll be exploring in a live conversation with Mark Manson.

You likely know Mark from The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F-ck. His work has reached millions by challenging the idea that we need to fix everything—and instead asking us to focus on what actually matters.In this conversation, we’ll look at the tension between effort and meaning, why caring about too many things can quietly work against us, and how choosing differently can change how we live and work.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing a lot but not getting closer to what matters… this will resonate.

You can join the livestream on April 1st here. Click on the notification bell to ensure you don't miss it – and I'd love for you to subscribe to the channel while you're at it!

Bring your questions. This one should be a good one.

— Mike

P.S. I’ve been thinking a lot about this idea of caring versus doing lately. It’s shaping the work I’m doing around Productiveness. If you want to follow along as that unfolds, you can sign up here.

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I’m Mike Vardy, and I help people build a better relationship with time — not by controlling it, but by working with it. Through my writing, courses, and community, I explore how intention and attention shape a more meaningful life — one rooted in the original idea of productiveness over productivity.

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