What to do when trying harder stops working?


Hello Reader,

A lot of what I teach in TimeCrafting is about your relationship with time.

But underneath that? It’s really about your relationship with yourself.

Because you can have the cleanest system in the world — the right tasks, the right times, the right tools — and still find yourself stuck. Still find yourself restarting the same habit for the fourth time this year. Still find yourself wondering why knowing what to do isn’t the same as doing it.

I’ve known Steve Kamb for years. And when I read what his new book, How to Try Again, is actually about, I knew I had to have him on.

It’s not about doing more. It’s not about doing it better. It’s about something that most productivity and wellness systems skip over entirely: how to begin again — without dragging the weight of every previous attempt with you.

We’re going live today at 2 PM PT, and we’ll be talking about:

  • Why so many systems quietly set you up to feel like you’re failing
  • What it means to “fail compassionately” — and why that matters more than resilience alone
  • How identity and self-talk shape whether trying again is something you can actually sustain
  • What it looks like to stop starting over and start starting differently

This is one of those conversations that isn’t really about productivity. It’s about the person doing the producing. And I think if you’ve ever felt the gap between knowing what to do and actually doing it — this one’s for you.

Join the livestream here

See you later,
Mike

The Practice of Productiveness

I’m Mike Vardy, and I help people build a better relationship with time — not by controlling it, but by working with it. Through my writing, courses, and community, I explore how intention and attention shape a more meaningful life — one rooted in the original idea of productiveness over productivity.

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