How I’ve started listening differently


Hello Reader,

For most of my adult life, I convinced myself that music had to take a back seat. Podcasts, audiobooks, silence. Those became my companions for focus, for learning, for “productive” listening.

But something shifted recently.

I found myself craving sound again—not just any sound, but music. Not noise to fill the air, but intentional listening that stirred something deeper.

And right around that same time, I started using a tool that didn’t just play audio, but helped me shape it.

That return to music made me realize something: I wasn’t just enjoying songs. I was remembering moments. A summer road trip. My childhood living room. The emotions, the atmosphere, the version of me that existed back then.

Music wasn’t background anymore—it was a bridge. And I started crossing it more often.

Eventually, I began building playlists not just to listen to… but to remember with. Seasonal soundtracks. Milestone moments. Songs that marked transitions in my life.

The result? A deeper connection to the past... and a surprising clarity in the present.

I wrote more about this journey, the science behind music and memory, and how to create your own memory-based playlists in a recent post. Click on the link below to give it a read.

Rediscovering My Musical Memory: A Journey Through Time and Sound

There you’ll also find the playlist I’ve been building. It's filled with songs that take me back and help me feel more grounded in who I am.

Give it a listen. And maybe start building your own.

— Mike

P.S. Guess what's coming back in early August?

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